Why do we miss someone who left us?
Why do we miss someone who left us?
Good riddance, right?
Jamakassi
But Ill tell you why: its because were humans who are built for goodness and for love.
These things are naturally and intrinsically within us.
You cant rub it off; theres no magic potion to make it disappear.
We cant forget, and we cant unlove.
Our life is filled with a lot of hellos and goodbyes.
My first hello came when my little brother was born, which made me a big sister.
My first goodbye came when my grandfather passed away and suddenly my Sundays were missing an essential part.
Then there are the hellos we make when we enter school and goodbyes from friends we lose touch with.
Dont you just want to scream and be angry?
But suddenly a big wave of nostalgia and longing overwhelms you, and thats okay.
Feel it and then remember why goodbyes were said.
Chances are, you know exactly why it ended, and you know its for the best.
Sometimes its just a hard pill to swallow.
Believe me, I know.
Missing someone doesnt mean you havent let them go.
And when that happens, you will be stronger and better, and it will be more magical.
