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Updated 2 months ago,February 19, 2025
You deserve someone who matches your energy.
Someone who is just as excited about the relationship as you are.
Someone who cannot wait to see you and brag to all their friends about you.
Erik Mclean
Indifference might not seem like a dealbreaker at first.
You might think that theyre simply playing it cool and might evenlikehow mysterious they seem.
But after a while, the allure is going to wear off.
Which is why you deserve someone who matches your energy, who gives as much as you do.
But they wont be happy about it.
Theyll whine about what youre doing the entire time.
Theyll make the experience miserable for you instead of trying to have fun.
Trying to enjoy the time spent with you.
Trying to make the most of the situation.
They are never excited about your accomplishments.Your partner is supposed to be your biggest supporter.
Theyre not supposed to diminish your hard work.
Theyre not supposed to give lukewarm replies when you get excited about an achievement or opportunity.
And theyre certainly not supposed to tear you down and doubt you.
You deserve someone who believes in your potential.
Someone who thinks the world of you and knows you’re free to conquer anything.
They couldnt care less about your interests.You dont need to date a clone.
They dont need to share all of your hobbies and interests.
But when you get excited about something, they should be happy that youre happy.
They should want to share your exciting moments with you, even if they dont fully understand them.
They shouldwantto do those things.
They should be excited to spend time together and they should let you know that.
They should show their love through their actionsandthrough their words.
Theyll be adecentpartner but they wont go above and beyond.
They wont do more than necessary.
That way, youtechnicallycant complain about them being horrible becausetechnicallythey arent doing anything wrong.
They dont come up with plans about trips youre going to take together or adventures that youll go on.
They dont seem all that excited to spend the future with you or even the present.
