If he liked you, then he would be thrilled to see your name pop up on his phone.

He would be thrilled to know that you were thinking about him.

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Updated 8 years ago,June 10, 2017

You are not clingy for texting him first.

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You are not clingy for answering him back within an hour of receiving a message from him.

You are not clingy for wondering why he hasnt talked to you in three days.

You are not clingy for giving attention to someone and for expecting them to return the favor.

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He doesnt want to be with you.

He would be happy that you took time out of your busy day to pay attention to him.

You wouldnt have to worry about coming across too strong.

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You wouldnt be scared about scaring him away.

Because he isnt ready for a serious relationship.

Hes not texting you back, because he doesnt like you as much as you like him.

Because he doesntwantall of the attention that youve been handing over to him.

If he actually liked you, then you wouldnt even have the chance to seem clingy.

You wouldnt get to send triple texts, because hed reply right away.

Find someone who doesnt run away when you admit youre attracted to them.

Someone who doesnt get scared off when you show them the slightest bit of affection.

Wait for someone who is complimented by how quickly you text back.

Wait for someone who realizes sending the first text and initiating the first date doesnt mean youre clingy.

It means youre putting in effort.

It means you actually care.