Commit to yourself, because you’re your own constant.

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Updated 7 years ago,December 28, 2017

Youve been dating a wonderful guy.

You have undeniable chemistry.

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He makes you laugh and is totally supportive.

You hang out or go out every weekend and text and FaceTime each other in between seeing each other.

It all seems to be going so well.

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Until you discuss making it exclusive, an idea that he is not interested in whatsoever.

Because it turns out that he isnt looking for anything serious.

He wants to keep it casual and fun.

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He sincerely likes you a lot, but it isnt good timing for him right now.

He just isnt in a place to commit.

And for a while, you wait.

You hope that maybe hellchange his mindsince it isnt personal.

Its only timing, right?

Maybe hell learn something about you that he cant lose.

Maybe itll work out.

Maybe hes just scared.

But he doesnt change his mind because he was telling you the truth.

He doesnt want anything serious and timing does not evolve in your favor.

That doesnt change what he wants.

And if he wont commit to you, it’s crucial that you commit to yourself.

Commit to becoming the best version of yourself.Explore your passions with relentless curiosity.

Commit to kicking ass at your job.

Commit to your friends and family.Commit to spending time with people who value and appreciate you.

Commit to the family who keeps you grounded and safe.

Commit to yourself.Commit to self-respect andself-careand self-love.

Commit to being gentle with yourself and allowing yourself to make mistakes.

Commit to picking yourself back up when you fall and commit to only accepting the love you deserve.

Commit to yourself, because youre your own constant.