You friends know you for your surface details you present to the world.
But they arent the ones up with you at night talking.
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Updated 8 years ago,August 14, 2017
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God & Man
If she pushes you to see your potential.
It isnt just important to find someone who makes you happy but someone who pushes you.
Someone who believes in your goals and dreams and ambitions.
God & Man
Someone who truly believes you are one of the best people there is.
Finding support and someone to push you past your comfort zone is what its all about.
If she makes you want to be a better man.
If it hurts you to hurt her or disappoint her.
And it doesnt hurt you what she might have done but how you reacted to what she did.
And it hurts you because in the midst of it you hurt her.
If you find yourself thinking about her randomly.
You care about other people, you see other people, you sleep with other people.
If her attention is the one youre trying to get.
You find yourself trying to get her attention.
If she understands you without you having to say anything at all.
Its like an unspoken dialogue between you two.
A language between the eyes.
If your relationship actually has substance.
Maybe not boring but you just realize everything is just a little more exciting with her.
If you find yourself going out of her way for you.
She asks you to do something or be somewhere and youre there.
You dont even think twice about it.
With her its always yes.
If you suddenly are careful with everything you say.
As you do her.
If youre trying to impress her.
She simplistically impresses you without even trying and you find yourself trying to keep up.
Bragging about little things and accomplishments.
But the truth is you wouldnt have to do anything at all but be yourself and shed be impressed.
If you find yourself jealous.
You brush it off like its nothing.
The delayed response late at night when she usually answers, you wondered who she was with.
If she believes in you even when you question yourself.
Sometimes you wish you saw yourself the way she did.
If she loves you unconditionally even when shes sees you at your worst.
Just as youve seen her at her worst and forgiven you, shes met you there too.
Maybe you hurt her, maybe you were unkind.
Maybe she was too.
Its the throw in of love you dont have to say but everyone sees.
And I know you feel it a little too.
If she knows you better than your friends.
You friends know you for your surface details you present to the world.
But they arent the ones up with you at night talking.
They arent the ones asking about your past trying to understand you.
They arent the ones who want to know every one of your favorite things.
And you know her too.
You confide in her.
You believe in her.
If you smile every time you see her name come across your screen.
Its never a text or notification that annoys you.
Its someone you love hearing from.
Conversations that last hours.
Someone you hate going a day without talking to.
If she scares you a bit.
She scares you because shes not like anyone else.
She scares you because you care.
She scares you because you know shed be good for you.
So you dont do anything at all.
And thats enough for her.
