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Updated 5 months ago,December 14, 2024
You never feel appreciated.
You do so much for them, but they never saythank you.
They never remind you how wonderful it is to have you in their life.
Carlos Domínguez
They take and take until youre exhausted, and they dont even show a shred of gratitude.
If they cant even spare a few sweet words, then they dont deserve you.
You never feel smart.
Your partner shouldnt act like theyre better than you.
They shouldnt minimize your accomplishments, make fun of your interests, or disregard your emotions.
They should respect you and what you have to say.
You never feel comfortable.
Butterflies are normal in the beginning of the relationship but you should never feel completely uncomfortable with them.
You should never feel like youre walking on eggshells and they might explode if you say the wrong thing.
You should feel like you’ve got the option to be your real self around them.
You should feel like youre safe in their arms.
If your gut is telling you something is wrong, then get out.
You never feel included.
They dont invite you out with their friends or introduce you to their family members.
Their life with you is completely separate from their life with everyone else.
You arent sure whether the other people in their world even know you exist.
Its like theyre hiding you away, keeping you as a secret.
If you want something serious and theyre not giving it to you, thats reason enough to leave.
You never feel special.
Even though youve done so much for them, they never return the favor.
They never surprise you with presents or leave cute little notes around the house.
Youre putting in much more effort and are starting to feel like the relationship has become one-sided.
Theres zero romance from their side.
Even after youve told them this is a problem, they havent put any energy into fixing it.
You never feel attractive.
Maybe theyre comparing you to other people or maybe they simply arent saying anything at all.
Either way, you shouldnt feel like your partner is indifferent about you.
Its heartbreaking when your partner doesnt notice something different youve done with your appearance or compliment you.
Your person should be hyping you up.
Even if they arent good with words, they should find other ways to make you feel wanted.
You never feel happy.
You shouldnt settle for a partner who is mediocre.
Just because theres technically nothing wrong with them on paper doesnt mean theyre the right one for you.
