It sounds harsh, I know.
Yet the sooner you realize this, the better.
Maybe theyre going through something.
@kxvn_lx
Maybe they are too busy and just dont have the time right now.
Maybe they really want to be there, but theyre waiting for you to reach out.
People can have good intentions, but that doesnt mean they will follow through with them.
If they are having a hard time, they communicate that to you.
They reach out and they allow themselves to be present with you.
This isnt to say its not hard for people to always be there.
Were human, and we all need moments where we take care of ourselves.
Its not enough to warrant them to put in the effort.
They are the promises we make to ourselves on their behalf.
We dont realize how much it hurts us.
How our hearts break a little more each time that we reach out with no reply.
We call it patience and empathy.
We tend to think that if we cut them off, we are a bad person.
Or we justify it by thinking they are horrible for not being what we need.
Sometimes you need them in ways they dont want or dont know how to be.
It doesnt make them evil ,and it doesnt mean anything is wrong with you.
People talk, but their actions are what show you who they are.
There are people who see you for who you are, and they cherish you.
They value what you bring to the table.
They understand and admire you, on so many levels.
They dont leave you guessing about why theyre absent.
They will do the hard things even if its uncomfortable.
They will care for you just as much as they do for themselves.
When it comes down to it, if they wanted to be in your life, they would be.
It hurts that they arent, and thats okay.
Youre allowed to be hurt.
Yet dont forget that this person isnt the end of the world.
This person isnt the only one who can support you, care for you, and love you.
Just wait and see.
