If you notice these four red flag behaviors, watch out.
You may be secretly sabotaged by a narcissist.
Crazymaking arguments and provocations before important events, milestones, or during celebrations.
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This is all about exerting control and power over a victim the narcissist perceives they are losing control over.
Do not showcase what is important to you in the presence of a narcissist.
Lets say a narcissistic parent sees you becoming financially and professionally successful.
This is due to their malicious envy, which is associated with both narcissistic and psychopathic traits in research.
they may say something like Are you sure you want to spend your money on that?
Dont it’s crucial that you save?
despite the fact that they know you are financially stable), even if it is not.
In the dating world, be very cautious of anyone who tries to neg or minimize you.
Doing the opposite of what you have expressed you desire and need for them.
Or lets say you tell a narcissistic friend you need some alone time to prepare for an important presentation.
When someone pulls these antics the first time around, its important to distance yourself immediately.
You may also enforce your boundaries rather than relying on the narcissist to fulfill your needs.
They are uplifting others for the sole purpose of trying to provoke you.
