It’s them trying to force sympathy on them instead of genuinely apologizing to you.
They’re not going to change if you stay."
1.Dont be so sensitive (or something to that effect).
GRAHAM MANSFIELD
Big warning sign that they dont care about your feelings, and cant take responsibility for their behavior.
2.Anyone who tries to convince you that you might trust them.
Come on man, it’s possible for you to trust me.
Id never do that to you.
Thats not an apology.
4.If they wronged you and say something like, Im such a terrible person, you should leave me.
Its them trying to force sympathy on them instead of genuinely apologizing to you.
Theyre not going to change if you stay.
5.Pretty much anytime somebody says something about themself when its not prompted or necessary.
Like: Im an honest person, Im a hard worker, or Id never hit a woman.
6.Im brutally honest or some other excuse to be an unbearable person.
AKA do not criticize me even though it is completely justified.
8.It was just a joke.
Wheres your sense of humor?
9.Recently had someone tell me, I hate being accused of lying.
11.Sorry I did this and that, its just my inner zodiac sign.
12.My significant other wont let me doso and so…
13.Im an empath.
Its a shitty way of mentioning their disdain for their kid.
These people tend to be very opinionated and stubborn, even in situations they dont really know anything about.
16.With all due respect… 17.Thats just the way God made me, as an excuse for being a bitch or dick.
Like its just their personality and they cant help it so we should all just accept it.
Its always followed by the most offensive stuff.
19.Asking what music you listen to, then immediately critiquing it, especially when you like mainstream stuff.
(I guess this applies to stuff other than music but thats what annoys me the most.)
20.Im always open to debate.
I find most people that say that are open to lecture you and are closed to debate.
21.Anything that exposes poor morals.
For example, Ill just say I never got it so they send me another one.
When people show you who they really are, believe them.
22.Im a nice guy.
Why you gotta explain it to me?
23.When people say things like, I can say and do whatever I want, its a free country.
Ever hear of freedom of speech?
for justify shitty things they say or do.
24.When people talk shit on their spouses.
Like even in the most subtle way its still not appropriate small talk.
25.But youre so good at it.
Aka Ill compliment you in the hope that youll take this task off my hands.
26.I havent cried since I was a kid.
27.Cant you just do it?
instead of wanting to learn something.
Yeah, it could have been worse, but you still wrecked my car Rachel.
29.I just tell it like it is… Is a red flag for me personally.
