If you keep hanging out with him.
If you keep him close instead of keeping your distance.
You need some space.
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You need room to breathe.
If you break down into a mess of tears whenever he mentions another girl hes interested in seeing.
Stayingjust friendsis an easy way to torture yourself.
To make every day harder than it has to be.
Youre hoping that he will eventually see you in a different way.
You are never going to get over him if you keep replaying memories inside of your head.
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If you keep wondering where it all went wrong.
Wipe his face from your memory.
Wipe his texts from your phone.
Dont reread the messages that he sent back when things were better.
Dont listen to his old voicemails so you’re free to hear the sound of his voice again.
If you keep staring at his pictures, reminding yourself how sexy he is.
How much you love his eyes.
How much you want his lips.
How much it hurts to live without him.
You are never going to get over him if you keep bringing him up to your friends.
If you complain about him every chance you get.
Resist the urge to say his name.
Resist the urge to talk about him when you know damn well he hasnt eventhoughtabout you.
You are never going to get over him if you keep torturing yourself with sad songs.
Stop finding a way to relate every set of lyrics to him.
Stop thinking every get-back-together song applies to you.
That is not going to change.
The only thing that needs to change is your mindset.
you should probably forget about him.
you should probably stop doing this to yourself.
you’ve got the option to get over him.
But its never going to happen if you keep him too close.
