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Updated 4 years ago,August 12, 2021
Life requires growth of us.
When we stop growing, we start to stagnate.
We become stuck in old thought patterns, behaviors and fears.
It starts to become uncomfortable.
It doesnt have to be like this.
In fact, you dont only grow and change when approached with circumstances which necessitate it.
You are growing and changing all of the time.
You are not only asked to do this.
Your choice is whether or not you walk or are dragged, so to say.
If you think you are complaining too much, you are probably right.
If you think your work is not challenging you, you are probably right.
The world spends so much time trying to coach you into having self-esteem by placating your circumstances.
What most people dont understand is that esteem is build from the outside in.
To develop it, we have to proveto ourselvesthat we are enough.
Some kind words and well meaning affirmations will not suffice.
Most people spendtheir entire livestrying to find that point, and wonder why they are so deeply dissatisfied.
It does not mean you cant embrace where you are.
It just means recognizing that as life is constant movement, as are you.
Of course all of this rejection and uncertainty feels weird, its not how youre supposed to live.
I say cellular level because this kind of knowing is a silent, unmovable force.
You will not have to convince yourself of anything.
You will look back and be so grateful for that which life wouldnt let you accept.
