Why is it that so many of us think were not worthy of love?
We all want the quick fix.
The truth is that the only thing that really makes a difference isnt nearly as sexy.
Those little changes are most powerful in the way you think about and viewyourself.
Picture it being like a house.
It looks so comfortable.
What they really want is the gorgeous you thats inside!
Then we do the damage to ourselves we beat ourselves up over and over again.
Were devastated that we didnt handle the situation better, that we didnt listen to what we knew.
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Then those voices in our head start up, Why cant I ever get this right?
Hell never really want to be with me if he saw the real me.
Hes so much better than me, I need to do better to make him love me.
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Mine went something like this:
I shouldve married my boyfriend from college.
He loved me, he was handsome, and the passion was great.
Everyone wouldve thought we were the perfect couple.
Ill never feel that kind of love and passion again.
It kept me stuck in the past, shaming myself and filled with regret.
It kept me pining over someone who had moved on.
It kept him on a pedestal rather than realizing that we had our problems in the relationship.
It kept me from being willing to feel that kind of love again.
These stories can also keep us attracting men that arent capable of giving us what were looking for.
Its a lie.
Its simply a story youve been telling yourself for far too long.
Love isnt for a select few.
Its not for the thin.
Its for everyone.For you especially you.
So whats the big secret to dating with purpose?
And thats an inside job.
Ask yourself, What did I make some progress on today?
What situation did I handle that I feel proud of?
Imagine your best friend talking to you about this situation.
What would she say to you?
Start speaking that way to yourself.
Envision the kind of life you really want and set some goals for yourself.
Do something to move towards your goals, every single day, no matter how small it might be.
