If you want to grow, you’re gonna wanna commit to change.

Even if you’re unhappy, you’re probably comfortable in one way or another.

You know what each day will hold.

If You Want To Grow, You Need To Actively Work On Yourself

Mathilde Langevin

You know what to expect.

We cling onto the hope that things will magically get better at some undeterminable point in the future.

We tell ourselves it wontalwaysbe like this while doing absolutely nothing to change whats wrong.

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Sometimes, we dont even sit with our thoughts long enough to determine what exactlyiswrong.

We know were unsatisfied.

We know were itching for more.

We know we dont want to keep living life like this.

Besides, those feelings are uncomfortable.

Why would we want to dwell in them?

Why would we want to examine them?

But most of the time, you oughta play an active role in the change.

Most of the time, you should probably do more than gripe about how unhappy you are.

you’re gonna wanna take action.

you should probably figure out what steps you could take to make your life better.

If you want to grow, you should probably commit to change.

you oughta take risks.

you’re gonna wanna say goodbye to the life youre currently living which is scary.

Even if youre unhappy, youre probably comfortable in one way or another.

You know what each day will hold.

You know what to expect.

You know what is going to stress you out and how youre going to respond.

Even the most uncomfortable pieces of your current existence are predictable and unpredictability is scary.

Even though making a change could lead to a much happier life, there are no guarantees.

You could end up just as unhappy.

You could end up struggling more than you think.

You could realize the risk was all a huge mistake.

Unfortunately, youre never going to rid yourself of those doubts.

There are no promises a change is going to fix whatever is wrong with your current life.

But you gotta ask yourself, are you happy now?

Are you content to keep living like this?

Even if the change is hard, wont it be worth it?

Things will get better but not on their own.

you should probably put in the effort.