But just because hes never told you that he loves you doesnt mean that he doesnt love you.
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Updated 8 years ago,May 23, 2017
Falling in love is a beautiful thing.
But it can also cause you bit of stress.
Joao Silas
One day, you may learn to love selflessly.
You may learn to love without needing that love to be reciprocated.
And being deserving of love doesnt necessarily mean giving it in return.
Joao Silas
But its easy to be afraid of loving someone who doesnt love you back.
Youre afraid of getting hurt.
And thats no surprise, especially if its the first time youve loved.
As far as loving a woman goes, its pretty easy to tell when she loves you back.
Im not sure if women are better at loving or just worse at keeping it hidden.
Men, on the other hand, are taught to hide their emotions.
Theyre told that emotion is a sign of weakness.
And because of this, they have a difficult time accepting emotions for what they are.
Even when men do accept how they feel, they keep it to themselves.
Im sure women find this infuriating.
But just because hes never told you that he loves you doesnt mean that he doesnt love you.
When it comes to men, actions really do speak louder than words.
He sends you a message almost every morning.
Love is a form of obsession it can be very healthy and incredibly rewarding.
But when youre in love, you have only so much self-control.
Even the strongest-willed man will break a few times a week and show you that youre his weakness.
He checks up on you randomly just to see how youre doing.
People both men and women are egocentric beings.
Until, that is, we fall in love.
He doesnt mind going out of his way to make your life easier.
You know how a woman will often complain about her husband being lazy and not wanting to help out?
He used to inconvenience himself just to help her out.
He would pick her up from out of his way when she needed a ride.
He didnt mind being worse off as long as she was better off.
If thats your boyfriend, then chances are he loves you.
How do you keep him from turning into a lazy husband, you ask?
Well, lets leave that for another article.
He lights up when he sees you.
Love is a mind filled with great memories and thoughts of a wonderful future together.
You cant possibly have all that on your mind and not smile.
If he loves you, youll receive just about all of his attention.
He asks you about your day, and then he actually listens.
He asks you for your opinion.
And this isnt just so that you feel like youre giving your two cents.
He wants to know your thoughts on the matter because he values your opinion.
And what better way than to start seeing the world through your eyes?
He gives you the better pillow.
He gives you the better half because he believes that you are his better half.
As kids, just about all of us were taught to share.
But this isnt just sharing; this is giving.
To him, giving you more is just the same as if he were taking more himself.
Its better, even, because it makes him even happier.
Or, at the very least, he tries.
He checks up on you.
He is always there when youre feeling down or under the weather.
When a man cares for you better than he cares for himself, he loves you.
He may not be a fighter, but seeing you in danger flips a switch.
He turns from a teddy bear to a grizzly in zero seconds flat.
