They refuse to reflect on themselves.
They refuse to apologize.
They refuse to admit theyve done anything wrong.
Mr. Wong
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Updated 6 years ago,October 19, 2019
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Your person comes up with a million excuses to justify their unacceptable behavior.They refuse to reflect on themselves.
They refuse to apologize.
They refuse to admit theyve done anything wrong.
They bring up painful pieces of your past to get to get a rise out of you.
They make it seem liketheirmistakes wereyourfault.
They make it seem liketheyshould be mad, not the other way around.
Your person gaslights you.They tell you youre remembering things incorrectly.
They insist certain conversations never happened.
Your person storms out of the house and stops answering your texts.They dont tell you where theyre going.
They dont tell you when theyre going to be back.
Your person runs straight to an ex to talk shit about you.They have an old hookup on speed dial.
They keep this person around as a backup plan just in case your argument ends in a breakup.
They rely on beer or pot or pills for numb the pain.
They use unhealthy coping mechanisms to ignore their emotions instead of sitting down with you and expressing those emotions.
Your person loses their temper and makes you feel unsafe around them.They throw your phone across the room.
They aim their fist at a wall.
They grab you by the arm.
They threaten you or themselves.
They use violence because they arent sure how to express their emotions in a more mature, healthy way.
