If you’re looking for a love to make you whole again, don’t look out there.
Someone to complete us.
Someone to finally fill the void, and make us feel whole.
Gabi Mulder
Someone who will bring us joy, and solve all of our problems.
If youre looking for a love to make you whole again, dont look out there.
If youre looking for a love to make you whole again, look inwards.
Open your heart to yourself.
Bring down those walls youve held around it for so long.
Allow yourself to fill and swell with your own, unconditional love.
And let this be enough; because it is.
Caress your beautiful body.
Speak kindly to and about yourself.
Fill your hours taking care of yourself, and your own needs.
Do things that bring laughter to the corners of your eyes, and a comforting warmth to your belly.
If youre looking for a love to make you whole again, spend some time sitting with your pain.
Sitting with that feeling that theres something missing.
And ask yourself, when did you start to feel this way?
Can you remember the moment when you decided that you were not enough?
And it takes a courageous, bad-ass woman to wake up each day and choose to believe that.
Maybe somewhere along your journey, someone made you feel like you are.
But youre not, I promise you, youre not.
Let that sink into your heart.
Let it heal those old wounds that continue to resurface.
Nothing and nobody out there can ever make you feel whole if you do not already feel so.
Its time to quit handing your power over to someone you dont even know.
Its time to stop allowing other people to control your feelings, and determine your self-worth.
Its time to reclaim your power.
If youre looking for a love to make you whole again, what youre really seeking, is yourself.
Your own approval, and validation.
Your own affection, and kindness.
All of the things that we can spend our entire lives searching for out there, but never find.
Because they were right here within our own hearts all along.
If youre looking for a love to make you whole again, look no more.
Because youve already found it.
