I want to get lost in this world, instead of getting lost in someone else.
I was told I wouldnt feel complete unless I had a significant other.
That I was unable to appreciate myself if I was all alone.

Pan Xiaozhen
But I guess life doesnt work that way.
I guess theres more to life than looking out for the perfect one.
Theres more to life than hoping for a happily ever after.

I want to start a great adventure in pursuit of my happiness.
I need to find out what I really want in life.
I need to be on my own for a while and make the scattered pieces of my life whole.

Pan Xiaozhen
I want to own my time and experience everything in this world.
I am single and I am determined to stay this way.
I am better at handling my heart with caution than anyone else.
I am learning to be dependent on myself.
I am trusting myself more.
And I am becoming so good at being alone.
I dont need a significant other to make me feel loved.
I can provide myself the love that I am looking for.
I dont need someone to tell me how special I am.
I already know Im one of the kind.
And I dont need anyone to validate me.
I am already enough for myself.
Maybe its okay to not put myself in the dating world right now.
Maybe its okay if I miss out my forever person while Im enjoying my moments of being single.
And maybe its okay to not have someone who brings butterflies in my stomach.
Being single is a gift Im more than willing to receive and hold close to my heart.
Its an opportunity delivered in front of meone which I have no intention of walking away from.
Being single is something Im in the process of learning.