A lack of effort will make your person feel unloved, unwanted, unappreciated.
You dont want to be the only one initiating texts.
The only one planning dates.
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The only one getting dressed up.
The only one who seems to give a shit.
But that doesnt end once youre in a relationship.
That doesnt mean you should stop planning dates, stop sending cute texts, stop making an effort.
Putting in effort will make your person feel loved and appreciated.
It will remind them how much you care.
You are always going to treat them as special as the day when you first met.
Meanwhile, a lack of effort will make your person feel unloved, unwanted, unappreciated.
It might even make them question whether they made the right decision in picking you.
It might make them have regrets.
Building a relationship with someone requires a lot of work but so does maintaining a relationship with someone.
You should be spoiling each other because you love each other.
Because you want each other to be happy.
Im slowly learning effort can make or break a relationship.
You should never stop appreciating them.
You should never treat them like an afterthought since youre confident they arent going anywhere.
Thats bound to happen.
But overall, you should always keep your relationship high on your list of priorities.
You should still be putting effort into your relationship and your partner should be doing the same.
