Girls have “Fuckboys” all wrong.
He won’t leave you hanging.
He’ll always be there for you in exactly the way he said he’d be there.
Joshua Munoz
Im sick of it.
I used to be what many would call a Fuckboy and there was nothing wrong with it.
The thing is, girls have Fuckboys all wrong.
Theyre not the bogeymen that some girls make them out to be.
Theyre not bad for wanting an active sex life without a relationship in sight.
Theyre not bad for wanting to keep things chill and casual.
Joshua Munoz
No, theyre absolutely upfront about what they want.
We Dont Know Any More About Love Than You Do
Most Fuckboys are young, early to mid-20s.
Ive never met anyone that could be classified as a Fuckboy older than that.
No boy and no girl is good at relationships at this age.
The freedom and possibility is completely overwhelming.
And this hapless, innocent ability to love quickly and hard is what your 20s are for!
Sleep around because thats what everyone is saying you should do?
Play it casual because thats what everyone with dating advice is saying to do?
Theres a crazy amount of messages being received.
Were all just trying to find ourselves here.
Who knows but its not fair.
We Believe Were Telling You How We Feel When We Dont Commit
Fuckboys dont commit, right?
Thats what theyre known for?
Maybe theyre awesome to hang out with.
Maybe theyre great in bed (you wouldnt keep sexing them otherwise, right).
Hes been telling you since day one what kind of relationship you have.
Why wont you listen to him?
Your hopes are not his responsibility just because you had sex.
When You Keep Coming Back To Us, We Believe We Have An Understanding
This ties into three.
Specifically, he learns thatyou dont know what you want.
A Fuckboy doesnt owe anyone anything.
Just because a girl might sleep with him doesnt mean he then has to have a relationship with her.
He doesnt have to do anything.
Hes a person and people can do whatever they want with their lives.
Sex doesnt create an obligation.
We call these girls heartbreakers and its a compliment.
Thats how life is.
Sometimes you dont get what you want.
You may want that Fuckboy but he doesnt want you.
That doesnt make him a monster.
Guess What, We Want Love Too!
All Fuckboys, all men, want love.
We do things well regret later, sometimes on accident, sometimes on purpose, sometimes because were oblivious.
The Fuckboy is eternal.
Because Fuckboys are there for you.
Are you single and lonely and just had a terrible day?
He wont leave you hanging.
Hell always be there for you in exactly the way he said hed be there.
Girls need Fuckboys the same way guys need fuck buddies.
Theyre someone you might be friends with, sort of.
If you dont want to fuck a Fuckboy then dont.
If you do, then dont complain that hes not your Forever Person after the fact.
You knew what he was about and maybe thats even why you wanted him.
Dont get it twisted just because he doesnt want to meet your parents.
