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Updated 7 years ago,December 23, 2017
Its okay to feel a little lost sometimes.
Like you look at yourself and youre just unsure.
Maybe people have made you feel that way.
Carlos Dominguez
Like its you thats doing something wrong.
Its hard to lose yourself to someone you try desperately to keep.
You lose your self-worth and sense of self-respect loving people that hard.
Carlos Dominguez
Suddenly your happiness is associated with them.
Then you realize as they come and go it affects your emotions much more than it should.
And when they leave it almost feels like you lost yourself because you invested so much into them.
If you want to improve your relationships improve the relationship you have with yourself first.
The past is supposed to shape you and help you to learn it isnt supposed to haunt you.
Learning to fall back in love with yourself wont happen overnight.
Realizing all of it comes down to you and how you react to things not someone else.
Let go of the past.
Let go of the people who burned you.
Let go of everything that never worked out instead of letting it bottle up inside you.
Let go of negativity and self-doubt and pain.
Because sometimes we hurt ourselves without realizing we are the ones doing it.
Its listening closely to the way you talk to yourself and changing the conversation when its negative.
But you had to realize that yourself first.
You had to give your all.
You had to lose yourself to someone else.
And its only then it’s possible for you to really say Im ready for a relationship.
Its accepting that some relationships will never work out no matter how hard you try.
For exactly who you are.
For exactly how hard youve loved.
For exactly how hard youve tried both to get it right and make yourself right.
Because youve never stopped trying to improve.
Love the person you were even if in that moment you didnt.
Because it takes a very special person to love others when they havent quite figured it out themselves.
It takes a very special person to give all of themselves to a point you feel lost.
But to get a great love means saving some for yourself.
Because when you love too much it leaves you empty.
When the love you give is even, youll never feel like youve lost yourself to it.
