Did you feel like they were your safe place that was completely untouchable?
Or just hearing their name brought the biggest smile to your face?
A person you constantly break up with just to make up months later?
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and being with them was a rollercoaster that had more downs than ups and never seems to end?
Well, I have certainly been there.
I was in a situation for years with someone I honestly thought I was going to marry one day.
Until I had to come to the realization that it just wasnt meant to be.
Being with someone for a long time is comfortable.
You know what the other person likes and dislikes.
You know each others patterns and quirks.
Why would you want to give that up and start over with someone else?
Love shouldnt be like that.
I think a lot of us grew up with this idea that love is a struggle.
That we should stick by them no matter what.
But love isnt supposed to hurt.
It doesnt take advantage of you.
It shouldnt feel like a 9-5 job with triple overtime and you never see a penny of your paycheck.
Is it completely easy??
No, but its not unbearably hard either.
There is no point to give your all to someone whos just giving 20%.
Sometimes were just hanging on to memories rather than the reality of what it is.
You deserve a love that is positive and is reciprocated.
If its not then yo let that situation go.
You are allowed to walk away from relationships that no longer serve you.
Its going to hurt, but itll be one of the best decisions youll ever make.
