We are discussing her current love triangle with a man who she just cant seem to let go of.
Im listening to her explain how much she dearly cares for this guy, who will remain anonymous.
She has known him for years.
Danielle Drislane
As you’re free to imagine it was a typical interaction that takes place during a night out.
Music playing in the background, while lighting sets the right tone.
At this point, they both have been drinking and are feeling good.
They quickly become each others go to after a night out.
She stops messaging him, she goes out and begins to meet new people.
She starts feeling good and is no longer thinking about that guy.
Two months later she receives a call at six in the morning.
So once again she finds herself wrapped up in whatever this is.
What soon develops in them hooking up here and there, there and here.
Although she wants more than just a hookup, she makes excuses for him.
She tells me how his true feelings come out (sometimes) when they are alone together at night.
She argues that he is different at two in the morning.
Realistically, there is no excuse.
While she is here venting about him, he is not.
If someone wants to be with you, they will make it known.
If someone is emotionally unavailable, guess what that person is emotionally unavailable.
So often too much energy is given to the wrong person.
You have to understand that letting go of someone who youve had a deep connection with doesnt happen overnight.
Allow your brain time to do so.
Yes, this means staying away when those not so nice feelings come up.
Instead of chasing people who drain your energy- chase adventure, open roads, starlit skies, salty waters.
Give your cells time to shed.
I promise you, you will move on.
