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Updated 7 years ago,June 2, 2018
Its the hardships that make you strong.
Its the heartbreak that makes you fearless in love.
Its the disappointments that make you wise.
Tobi Dami
Getting hurt is an essential part of life because thats how we grow and thats how we learn.
Thats how we figure things out.
Thats how we discover ourselves.
Thats how we know who truly loves us and who is just pretending.
Without pain, we would be blind.
Without pain, we would be sheltered.
Tobi Dami
Without pain, we wouldnt have learned how to fight lifes toughest battles.
And dont get me wrong, Im not romanticizing pain or saying its something beautiful.
We cant control pain.
We cant decide that our lives will be free of pain and so we must find the silver lining.
We must find the message behind our pain.
We must understand how this pain will help us get to the pleasures were seeking eventually.
Choose to make it ourfriendinstead of our enemy.
