It does not mean she is happy about leaving you.
She stopped fighting because she fought forso long already.
She cannot fight anymore.
Leah Kelley
If you were paying attention, you would have seen this coming.
You would have seen how unhappy she has grown.
You cannot suddenly start caring about her the moment you realize you are losing her.
You cannot blame her for leaving because you pushed her away.
You pushed and pushed, assuming she was never going to break.
But everyone has a breaking point.
When she stops fighting, it does not mean she has stopped loving you.
It does not mean she ishappyabout leaving you.
It does not mean she is a quitter.
It means she has stopped keeping her standards low.
It means she has stopped accepting the minimum amount.
It means she realizes she deserves better.
A relationship needs effort to survive.
It needs constant attention.
When she stops fighting for you, you have already lost her.
Yes, she might still love you.
Yes, she might feel horrible about leaving you behind when she once thought you were her forever.
But she is not going to keep allowing you to walk over her.
She shouldnt have to walk out the door to make it knock sense into you.
You shouldnt have to lose her to realize how much she means to you.
You should have realized that from the start.
You should have treated her with respect from the start.
Dont make this harder on her by saying she could have done more, she could have fought longer.
She fought long enough and she shouldnt have even needed to fight in the first place.
You should have handed her your love freely.
You should have given her attention without being convinced.
You have to understand, she isnt leaving to spite you.
She isnt leaving to make you look bad.
She is leaving, because she is not going to put herself through hell anymore.
She is not going to settle for less than she deserves anymore.
She deserves to find someone who puts as much effort into the relationship as she does.
