Often, we mistake someone for being clingy for the wrong reasons.
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Updated 5 years ago,November 16, 2019
Oh, wow, the notifications are piling up.
Oh, did she write full paragraphs?
John Tuesday
She must really want to know about your day.
The answer is no.
Often, we mistake someone for being clingy for the wrong reasons.
Sometimes they end because someone texts too much or too little.
The idea that a girl texts too much or too little often suggests how interested she is.
Do we think that way because we read into what a text means too much?
If she is texting too little it does not suggest she is uninterested.
It could mean so many things, such as she is occupied and busy at work or school.
It could mean that they care about you and would like to know about your day.
Nowadays, if you do not like the way she is texting, what do you do?
Yes, you stop texting her.
Pretend like she did not exist.
Is it just that easy ghosting her?
Ghosting her does not mean that you have closed another chapter.
It only means that you have neglected anothers feelings and left her with questions.
Questions about where she may have gone wrong or about herself.
Leaving her with no answers only leaves her incomplete.
Ever wonder how much easier speaking the truth would be?
Have you ever thought for a split second she wanted to make things work?
By sending all those texts she wanted you to understand her day and wanted to know more about you?
We take this as a sign that she wants to much attention and has become clingy.
Maybe she texting that because she wants to understand you better and wants to learn more about you.
We often assume the worse out of most situations, which is a negative outlook on life.
If she is texting too much, do not overthink and take it for granted.
Get to know her better and put the effort in.
Most of all, remember: She is not clingy.
