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Updated 5 years ago,March 13, 2020

Sometimes having a big heart is difficult.

Sometimes having a loving heart is difficult.

Sometimes having a giving soul is difficult.

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Hannah Busing

At the end of the day, these difficulties that you face on a semi-regular basis shouldnt define you.

If anything, these difficulties should help find you the same kindness in a reciprocating soul.

You walked away from a 6-year relationship and began spiraling out of control.

You used boy after boy in hopes of healing the damage that had been done.

You considered yourself damaged because of the shitty things you tolerated and endured during those six years.

You changed the way you viewed yourself based on this experience and somehow decided that you deserved less.

This is not true.

You walked away from that experience a much better person.

You walked away and realized that you walked away because youre actually stronger than you give yourself credit for.

Since then, youve found that your standards have ultimately risen.

Youre no longer settling for anything less than what you deserve.

You met someone who you deemed the male version of you and you surprisingly fell in love with him.

In reality, you actually loved this one more than you had anyone else.

But it was time to walk away from this one too.

Youll be the most comfortable with this person and youll both grow together.

This person will think the sun shines out of your ass and vice versa.

Hell be one of your best friends that you’re able to bare your soul too.

Hell be someone you cant go without talking too.

Hell be the main reason you cant stop smiling.

Hell make you laugh at the stupidest things, and your simplest conversations will mean the most.

Wait for this person.

Itll be more than worth it.