Think of all the good times you shared.

Think of how long the relationship lasted.

If you were unlovable, then you wouldnt have been in a relationship in the first place.

Times My Almost Relationships Ended Before Becoming Official

Daniel Monteiro

If you were unlovable, then this person wouldnt have been with you for so long.

If you were unlovable, then you wouldnt have friends to support you through the breakup.

People have fallen in love with you before and others will fall in love with you in the future.

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You have plenty to offer.

Instead of focusing on all the things youve done wrong, consider what went right.

List down your good traits.

There are beautiful pieces of you that the right person will appreciate.

Your breakup doesnt mean youre unlovable.

It means thatoneperson in a world filled withbillionsof people, decided you werent the right one for them.

There are so many more options out there.

There are so many other hearts that you havent even had the chance to meet.

This one person isnt the be-all, end-all.

Their opinion isnt the only one that matters.

Not everyone is going to agree with them.

Plenty of people are going to look at them and wonder how they could let someone like you go.

Your breakup doesnt mean youre unlovable.

It simply means you were loving the wrong person.

It means you were looking for affection in the wrong place.

Your love is valuable, and the right person will see that.

The right person will give as much as they receive.

They will ensure you know, each and every day, exactly how lovable you are.

But until then, you shouldnt doubt yourself.

You shouldnt assume your meanest thoughts are the truth while ignoring your gentle thoughts.

Your breakup doesnt mean youre unlovable.

Youre going to find someone else again.

Youre going to prove yourself wrong.

Remember, the way you feel about yourself when youre at your lowest isnt accurate.

You arent giving yourself enough credit.

Put effort into self-growth and self-discovery.

You are lovable exactly the way you are, but dont settle when you could reach for the stars.

Have high expectations for yourself and for the people you choose to date.