Losing you has taught me that when people leave, it does not determine my worth.

Sometimes we step willingly forward, only to have someone lean in the opposite direction.

But losing you has taught me that when people leave, it does not determine my worth.

girl at sunset looking at city skyline, losing you, becoming whole

Ivana Cajina

Losing you,has reminded me that I do not control the passage of time.

That I cannot change what happens to me, only how I choose to behave in the aftermath.

That I am the ruler of my emotions, and mine only.

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Losing you,has given me a reason to celebrate myself again.

But losing you reminded me that I was never any less than full.

Losing you,has done a number on my heart.

girl at sunset looking at city skyline, losing you, becoming whole

Ivana Cajina

It has tied my stomach in knots, made me hesitate, made it hard to breathe.

But losing you has made me realize the power of my emotions, the sensitive woman I am.

Losing you,has given me reasons to doubt, to lose faith, to never want to trust.

Your actions have closed off parts of me, made me want to hold back.

Youve made me feel broken, empty, confused, and frustrated.

And one who, despite your leaving, will continue.