Love should make you feel full.
Not misunderstood or unappreciated.
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Updated 2 months ago,March 4, 2025
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Cade Prior
Love should make you feel full.Not empty.
Not misunderstood or unappreciated.
Love shouldnt be causing you constant tears or self-doubt.
Your person shouldnt be the main reason for your pain.
They should be the reason for your revival.
Enjoy the puppy love phase.
Enjoy moving in together.
Enjoy getting more comfortable around each other.
Love can be calm.you’re able to how you care in small, subtle ways.
you’re free to surprise each other with presents and send each other sweet texts throughout the day.
You dont always have to make grand romantic gestures to post on social media.
Remember, the healthiest relationships arent the most exciting.
Theres no screaming in the rain or on-and-off again labels.
You act as constants.
You treat each other well, regardless of your moods.
Youre there for each other, always.
You wont always be happy with each other, but when theres a problem, youll talk it through.
Youll feel comfortable opening up to each other, even when your feelings are messy.
Youll become a stronger team, not a weaker one.
However, you dont want to spend every waking second together, either.
You dont want to become overly dependent or attached at the hip.
You want to have some of your own hobbies, your own friends, your own interests.
Sometimes, those areas can overlap, but not always.
Love is going to hurt.Even when youre in a close-to-perfect relationship, there are going to be rough days.
Youre not always going to agree.
Youre not always going to be in the best moods.
However, your person should never disrespect you or make you feel small.
They should never cross unforgivable boundaries or push you to your limits.
They might make mistakes, but they shouldnt make a habit out of them.
