I dont believe in saying that you never meet right people at a wrong time.
Were walking around with tons of emotional baggage unpacking it slowly in the front of the others.
It is one of the Gods that knows whether or not a relationship has a chance to last.
Toa Heftiba
In reality, you either thank, hate or blame the timing.
If one is mentally mature to commit to an everlasting relationship, he/she will behave accordingly.
If he isnt, he will act like he isnt.
None of them are wrong.
Its just that youre heading East while he is leading South.
In such instance, its going to take some time to arrive at the same destination, if ever.
However, we count those along ones fingers.
Maybe you got out of a serious relationship.
If so, you arent in a state to commit straight away either.
You feel bit sore, or even foreign in the land of dating.
Timing is mismatched again.
Its logical to feel lost in your mind, heart and often streets after a breakup.
You may not sign up for a trip to a frozen section picking up your favorite ice cream.
Instead, you give up carbs and decide to move on.
Towards the end of the night, one would ask: So what is that youre looking for?
What am I looking for?
You repeat the question and clear your throat.
The deeper you look into their eyes, the less you know.
You dont know what to say.
You dont even know how to answer this question to yourself.
Youve got a perfect excuse: Youre new to dating slowly dipping toes in fresh waters.
Deep down you know you arent ready for anything serious.
Maybe you’re free to relate.
There are seasons in life that arent about finding yet another relationship.
There are seasons where we are given an opportunity to know ourselves better.
Getting clear on what is that we want.
And there is so many of us.
Timing decides whether or not your potential date can have the future.
And as one season will end, there will always be the next.
