Every single day, Henry tries his hardest to make Lucy smile like its the first time theyre meeting.
And this is exactly how you should act in a long-term relationship.
But thats the wrong idea.
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You cant get lazy over time and start neglecting your person.
you should probably continue to show your partner that you care, years down the line.
If you think youre unlovable, youre thinking wrong.
The right person wont care if you have anxiety or depression or a memory impairment like Lucy.
So dont you dare settle for someone who makes you feel like a burden.
Hold out for someone who surpasses your expectations without thinking twice.
Someone who couldnt care less about the aspects of yourself that make you feel insecure.
You are lovable exactly the way you are.
Relationships arent always easy, but you cant run away when things get hard.
When you find the right person for you, things arent always going to be smooth sailing.
Life isnt that simple.
However, if you want to make the relationship work, youll search for solutions.
Youll use trial and error until you figure out how to make the romance work.
You wont give up the second that things get hard.
Youll work as a team to figure out a solution.
Youll put in real work because this person is worth the energy.
Your family members wont always know whats best for you.
Everyone in Lucys life warns Henry to stay away from her.
They assume hell end up hurting her or getting hurt by her.
However, he ignores their advice and continues to pursue her.
By the end of the movie, they end up married with a family, living out their dream.
At the end of the day, their approval doesnt matter.
you better live a life that makes you feel fulfilled, regardless of what they think.
If they love you, your happiness will change their mind anyway.
Protecting your heart can backfire.
Lucy tries to protect Henry by breaking up with him.
But hes happier when hes with her.
Separating is only hurting the both of them.
Loving someone is always a risk, but its a risk that is worth taking.
If you want to be in a happy, healthy relationship, you gotta be brave.
