If the answer is no, why should your person get another chance?
Loving someone does not mean you grit your teeth and put up with their bullshit.
Loving someone does not mean you lower yours standards to get to keep them in your universe.
Elijah O’Donnell
When you love someone, it doesnt mean you turn a blind eye to their bad habits.
It doesnt mean you sweep your problems under the rug.
It doesnt mean you pretend to be fine when you are secretly seething.
When you love someone, you should be comfortable having tough conversations with them about your thoughts and emotions.
You should clearly restart the search for someone better suited for you.
When you love someone, you shouldnt fall into the habit of letting them get away with murder.
You shouldnt let it roll right off your back every time they treat you terribly.
If the answer is no, why should your person get another chance?
Just because of your history?
When you love someone, you are allowed to call them out on their bullshit.
You are allowed to get into arguments.
You are allowed to be vocal about your feelings.
You are allowed to end the relationship even when the love is still alive.
Loving someone doesnt mean you let them get away with treating you terribly.
They would make changes.
They would not swear they love you.
They would show it.
They would not treat you like shit.
They would treat you the way you deserve.
