That’s how you should approach everything in your life.
When you are the key in of person who puts everyone elses needs before your own.
Its looking at your life and instead of pointing blame its finally taking responsibility.
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But you are at a point where you want to find a solution.
Its asking yourself am I doing this because I want to?
And even though you dont want to do it, in that moment you know you have to.
Its checking in the people who check in on you because those are the people who matter.
Its allowing yourself to breakdown and cry and fall completely apart because its okay to not have the answers.
Its okay to be unsure.
Its okay to be hurting and not know how to fix it.
Its taking a step towards a completely different lifestyle that you or others are used to.
But the real relationships in your life will support you.
Its not selfish to want to be happy and want to have a life youre really excited about.
Its evaluating your life and your choices and calling it exactly what it is.
The things you did your ashamed of and instead of throwing a pity party, you learn.
You forgive yourself because as much as other people deserve forgiveness you do too.
Its realizing you cant force things.
Whether thats relationships or a lifestyle.
Especially if its not making them happy.
Thats how you should approach everything in your life.
Its pulling back if that answer is no and trying to create a life you dont need to fake.
And it isnt wrong to want to be happy.
Its saying no for the first time in your life and not explaining why.
