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Updated 4 years ago,August 28, 2021
Healing is a process.
Something doesnt just end and you accept it.
Healing is a process.
Brandon Woelfel
Its takes you understanding why something didnt work out.
It takes learning that some people just arent meant for you.In your head thats easy.
Where the possibility of a future seemed real.
Suddenly you realize any next steps towards the future are ones youre taking alone.
So you stand still not knowing where to go.
Healing is a process.
Its loving someone but loving them enough to let them be.
Even when you dont want to.
With the things you cant change, youre forced to move on.
Maybe youve noticed her pull away a bit.
Maybe you dont talk like you used to.
Maybe she doesnt blowup your newsfeed nor do you do the same.
Maybe you know shes hurting.
Desesperately trying to fix herself.
Maybe shes growing distant because shes trying to heal.
She reminds herself, if he wanted to be with me he would be.
If he wanted to talk to me he would.
Maybe you dont realize shes trying to distance herself.
But when you do realize it and when you start to miss her too…stop.
Dont make it harder for her than it needs to be.
Dont ask her how she is.
Everything about you reminds her of things that couldnt be.
The truth is she cares about you more than anyone in her life.
But she cant keep holding onto something that hurts as bad as it does.
The hardest lesson we will ever learn is when to let go and when to try harder.
There sadness to becoming strangers with someone who knows you better than most.
But theres greater sadness trying to keep someone who isnt meant for you.
And the greatest sadness of all is losing yourself to someone else.
So when she pulls away or doesnt answer or tries to ignore you, dont take it personally.
Take it as she needs to heal.
She deserves to heal.
