We never fall with the intention of falling out.

Could they be it?

you have likely thought to yourself.

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Could they be my forever?.

You want it to last forever.

Because when we are falling, our brains only focus on the good.

But our brains can also blur reality from the truth.

When we begin to fall for someone, our judgment too begins to weaken.

We want to believe this person we love was created by design for us.

We want to believe they are perfect.

We want to believe they are ourforever.

As time passes, maybe by choice or maybe by devastating heartbreak, you two part.

A person you once imagined your whole world with.

There is no exact feeling or words to describe knowing your time together has come to an end.

That you have become each others past instead of future.

But maybe they werent meant to be your forever.

Maybe they were just a chapter in your book thats gearing up for the main plot.

Maybe they were brought into your life to teach you how to love deeper and unapologetically.

Maybe they helped show you who you are and what you want to become.

Maybe they tore you down so carelessly and recklessly that your only option is to rebuild stronger.

Its time for you to focus on you.

Because your forever person is out there.

Your forever person will not make you question whether you are good enough.

Your forever person will instill what trust is supposed to feel like all along.

Your forever person wont make you question whether they would really choose you day in and day out.

Again and again,forever.