Closure doesnt change anything that already happened.
Sometimes I felt like I got closure.
The times that I didnt, I found myself holding on long thereafter.
Tiko Giorgadze
With each relationship and experience, I was determined to learn something and grow from it.
What qualifies as closure?
What deems it necessary?
Tiko Giorgadze
What is the ultimate outcome of closure?
Closure doesnt change anything that already happened.
It doesnt turn back time.
It doesnt fade the hurtful things away you said when you were most upset.
It doesnt shift blame to either side.
It doesnt act as a second chance at reconciliation,and that should never be the expectation.
So maybe you need closure, maybe you dont.
So, my next question is, why do we tend to look to someone else for closure?
Being able to move on or let go will start and end with you.
A recent heartbreak left me with this deep feeling of disgust.
Initially, without thought, I let this feeling completely suffocate me.
Things ended hostile, aggressive, and irrational.
So, of course I looked for closure to move on.
But then I realized, perhaps I needed to see the situation for what it was.
I didnt want things to be left so ugly, but the harsh reality is they were.
There is no changing that.
I felt disgusted and disappointed by this person.
These negative feelings were slowly sucking away all the energy I had, eating away at me.
So, do I really need closure?
it’s possible for you to forgive and truly move on for yourself.
Why feel bad for yourself?
You arent the one who lost something.
You are strong, you are fearless, and you will push through.You deserve it.
