I would much rather date someone who tells me too much than too little.

Someone who is open and honest with me instead of hiding their feelings behind a wall.

I find effort much more attractive.

A couple putting in effort

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I dont consider double texts and midnight phone calls desperate.

I consider it cute.

Its so rare to find someone authentic.

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Someone who actually tells the truth instead of dodging questions and keeping me waiting.

I would much rather date someone who tells me too much than too little.

Someone who is open and honest with me instead of hiding their feelings behind a wall.

Mixed signals are not a way to lure me in.

If you arent paying attention to me, I am going to assume you arent interested in me.

Despite what most people might think, I dont run away when someone shows interest in me.

Theres a bigger chance I am going to run if you look like you couldnt care less about me.

There is nothing exciting about making me feel like Im not good enough for you.

I dont want to settle for someone who makes me question myself.

Whatever way you look at it, mixed signals suck.

Playing hard to get might sound sexy in theory, but it only causes hurt.

And I have been hurt enough already.

I want someone who is unafraid of their feelings.

Someone who meets me and only takes seconds to decide I am worth dating.

Im not going to lie.

I have dealt with mixed signals before.

But I am never going to do that again.

Someone who sees how much Ideserve.

Someone who cares as much as I care.