Acting likeyouare the problem in every situation is a way for them to pretend they are innocent.
Its an excuse for them to avoid changing for the better.
Remember, you dont oweeveryoneyour time and attention.
Brandon Woelfel
you could be stingy when it comes to who gets the key to your heart.
Why do their feelings matter more than yours?
Why do they get to set boundaries that break yours?
Inrealfriendships and relationships, youheareach other.
You respect each other.
You meet each other halfway.
If someone refuses to treat you with common decency, then theres no reason to beg them to change.
Its not your responsibility to teach them manners.
Its not up to you to make them see the error of their ways.
There are people out there who you wont need toaskfor kindness.
Dont let anyone make you feel silly for setting boundaries, especially when your mental health is involved.
You know whats best for yourself.
You know what you could handle.
You know what you want and dont want from another person.
If someone ignores your boundaries, they might not be the right person for you.
If someone tries to bully you into changing, they definitely arent the right person for you.
Dont let anyone convince you to lower your standards and accept worse treatment from the rest of the world.
You deserve to feel comfortable when you walk into a room.
Never apologize for setting strong boundaries.
You want to surround yourself with people who respect your decisions, who understand you at your core.
Stop spending time with people who ignore your boundaries.
Stop spending time with people who dont care about your feelings as long astheyget whattheywant.
