We cannot force another to want us, to choose us, to love us.
Life doesnt work that way, and honestly, that sucks.
Imagine a world where everyone showed interest in everyone.
God & Man
Where is the individuality of self, where is the uniqueness of relationships?
It would be nonexistent.
The concepts of attraction, desire, and love would literally be nothing special.
Lets be honest.
Not being chosen hurts.
Weve all experienced not being chosen by someone we wanted.
Maybe they didnt want a relationship.
Whatever the reason for them not choosing us, we got through it.
We licked our wounds, we healed, and we moved on.
And damn… that opens up a whole new world of hurt and doubt.
It makes me doubt everything I know.
If I was such a good judge of character, would this have happened?
Wouldnt I have seen this coming?
And this is where we struggle.
We struggle with the unknown.
We struggle with thewhy.
We struggle with the unexplainable.
But maybe were not supposed to know these things.
So lets try harder to let go of the burning desire to knowwhy.
Lets give a shot to let go of what is not meant to be.
It should only matter that you do.
