We grow up seeking approval from our family, our peers and our love interests.
We exist in relationships where our worth is dependent upon the way we are treated.
We use it as our truth.
Brandon Woelfel
We use it as evidence that we dont deserve more.
But we owe it to ourselves to stop this narrative.
In fact, here are six things all of us need to learn:
1.
None of that matters, what matters is how you see yourself.
Comfort can make us lose touch with what we really desire and deserve.
Comfort isnt happiness, its just practical.
What matters is not listening to what you need.
Stop looking outwards at the world and how you present yourself and how others perceive you.
Listen to the voice inside your head, it needs to be heard.
Your number of followers does not tell anyone about the kindness which exists in your heart.
We compare what we know to be real to what others want us to believe is real.
We spend so much time wishing for what others have and not appreciating what we have ourselves.
We use it to torture ourselves, pull ourselves apart, and hate ourselves.
We use it to define who we are and what we deserve, and thats a form of self-harm.
So what if you arent married yet, so what if you arent squeezing into size 6 jeans.
Stop letting fear paralyze you.
Yes, your utility might not be successful.
Yes, you may leave your relationship and find yourself alone and unhappy.
Yes, so many things could go wrong but what if they go right?
you might do so much more than you allow yourself to believe you are capable of.
Sweet girl, youre capable of anything.
