You are not that much different than most people you know.

As you get older, you start to see a difference in outcomes.

You see the silent effects of privilege, of character, of good decision making and bad.

Not Everybody Is Going To Grow—It’s Not Your Job To Force Them

Flora Westbrook

You see the way that some people manage their lives or fail to do so.

You see who has changed and who has not.

You see who has grown, and who has not.

January Nelson

Not geographically, but mentally and emotionally.

You will realize, very quickly, that they arent necessarily bad people they just never evolved.

They never quite grew up.

The secret is that its not your job to tell them they need to.

Its actually not your job to decide whether they are off course or on, doing well or not.

Today, we get to see how everyone turned out in real-time.

Sometimes, were inspired.

Sometimes, were encouraged.

Sometimes, were so grateful.

Sometimes, were saddened.

We are being judgmental.

We are proving that there is still more growth to do.

Though we cannot know this for sure,we can also remove ourselves from the crossfires.

We are allowed to keep distance, we are allowed to take space.

We cannot force other people to grow in the exact direction that we have decided is right.