The what ifs and the maybe will kill you if you let it.

Its the person who tries a little too hard to just people putting someone elses needs before their own.

And the toxic person is someone who needs this jot down of person to thrive.

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Allan Flillpe

Someone who manipulates and controls others to feel whole themselves.

They are the ones with a reputation.

The ones you think it’s possible for you to change.

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Allan Flillpe

The punch in of people who always have an explanation.

These are the people who blame everyone else.The ones who never apologizebut justify any accusation you may make.

These are the people who need you to build them up.

Need you to control so they feel they have a sense of control over something in their life.

Because when you love someone you dont hurt them and constantly let them down.

Real love is the opposite oftoxic relationshipsbecause real love has no room for that.

If I tried harder…?If I stayed longer…?

And even when you walk away what hurts more is thinking maybe they will apologize.

You become more paranoid.

You think every relationship will end with you hurt.

This person keeps you walking on eggshells with every move they make.

And once you lose self-respect you end up losing yourself a bit.

Understand toxic people turn everything in their path black.

And if you are in their path eventually thatll be you too.

They push you and see how much they can get away with.

They act a certain way.

They talk a certain way.

Trying to decipher how someone feels when youve made it clear yourself.

Thats why its hard to walk away for good because theyve become routine and your comfort zone.

If you are tired of these circles and how you keep getting hurt stop choosing someone who hurts you.

If you are tired of crying yourself to sleep stop choosing to love someone who cant love you back.

If you are tired of him always coming back dont let him.

Ignore his texts and calls and really show him what its like to live without you.

Hes never going to be the person you want so its time you stop believing he will be.

And any good, healthy happy version of you would never tolerate this pop in of relationship.

So say goodbye for good not because you dont love him but because you love yourself more.