This is the secret to happiness.
It sounds as simple as breathing, but letting go is more complex than it seems.
It sounds as simple as breathing, but letting go is more complex than it seems.
Brandon Woelfel
What other people think about you doesnt matter.
The overanalyzing, the need for other peoples approval is just a waste of energy.
This need for people to like you will become draining.
Ironically, it is this desperate need of being loved that is making you miserable and undesirable.
The approval from other people will not make you as happy as you thought it would.
There will always be something with someone.
you’ve got the option to never kindly everyone.
Other people are not responsible for your happiness.
You have lost all sense of control.
Most importantly, you have lost yourself.
I thrive when I am underestimated.
Nothing motivates me more than when someone does not think I am good enough.
Thank the people in your life who do not support you.
Thank the ignorant for not seeing your true worth.
Thank the people who were never there for you.
They taught you to be better than them.
Instead of letting them bring you down, prove them wrong.
Let their doubt push you.
Do not drown in self-pity, because they do not believe in you.
Use their negativity as power.
Be the Elle Woods to their Warner.
I am extremely competitive and nothing in this world makes me happier than proving someone wrong about myself.
I do not see their negativity as a setbackI see it as motivation.
I see it as a chance to turn the tables on the naysayers.
Instead of letting the opinions of others control your self-worth, let thembetteryour self-worth.
Change your mindset change your perspective.
Take this criticism as a challenge.
Remember you are not competing with them.
You are competing with yourself.
Set Goals, And Achieve Progression
This is a war between you and last years you.
Someone once told me in hell you meet the person you could have been.
You never want to feel like you have peaked.
Your potential is endless.
My greatest nightmare is becoming a has-been.
Always look for new ways to progress.
If you have mastered your business career, find a way to excel creatively.
There is no limit to improvement.
Nothing feels better than watching yourself grow.
With less than 2 months left of 2018 I have almost completed my list.
I highly recommend this cheesy new year method.
I want to also emphasize the point of progression.
Progression is not always winning.
Sometimes losing is actually more important than winning.
Progression is growth and that is what is vital to your success.
Your Love Life Is Not Your Whole Life
A toxic relationship is worse than being single.
I know when you are lonely you romanticize the past.
You only remember the good, because you have repressed the bad.
Living in the past is warm and it is safe, but it is also a form of regression.
It is like rereading the same story over and over again and trying to change the ending.
Melancholy sometimes only leaves you with misery.
Usually, my advice for loneliness would be to distract yourself.
Keeping busy is always the best medicine.
Travel, go to the gym, go shopping, get a promotion.
It is never enough.
you’ve got the option to have it all and still feel so empty.
That is the scariest part about successwinning and still feeling nothing.
It is terrifying when you do not know what can make you happy anymore.
People look for that happiness in other people rather than themselves.
Sometimes people believe finding the perfect partner can solve all their problems.
Your partner is not supposed to magically come in your life to be the hero that saves you.
Saving someone is not the same as falling in love.
You cannot seek answers in other people.
That is the fastest way to let someone completely control you.
Once they control your happiness it is game over.
Real happiness will come from yourself.
From letting go and not caring what people think.
Real happiness is allowing yourself to be free.
