More than just manners or kindness or growth and learning. But the person who teaches you what its like to start living. Even if it seems crazy to everyone else it makes sense to you. Jeremy Wong Date someone who makespushes you to do things that scare you. Date someone who pushes you to buy that plane ticket just because it’s possible for you to. Date someone who makes the little things in life fun....
Heartbreak is not meant to be a permanent resident. Do not build a wall in the name of protection, when all youre doing is isolating yourself. Do not shut the blinds, end the windows. Joshua Rawson-Harris Do notcast awaythe world that comes knocking at your door. When heartbreak comes, do not give it a home. Do not hand it a key to your safe place, built by walls and fear....
Know that no matter what happens next, you have a God who loves you. And there is nothing to fear. To be a person of faith is difficult. Joshua Rawson-Harris To be a person of faith is hard. To be a person of faith is complicated. Trusting God doesnt mean stumbling into a perfect existence. It doesnt mean a pain-free path, or an easy road. Trusting God wont be butterflies and rainbows....
Aries: You spent every waking moment waiting. Waiting for someone to text you back. Waiting for the weekend. Unsplash / Joshua Rawson Harris Waiting for something exciting to happen. Waiting for someone to text you back. Waiting for the weekend. Waiting for something exciting to happen. You kept counting down the days until your vacation or counting down the hours until work ended. You never actually enjoyed the moment because you became too restless....
I enjoy lazy days. I enjoy my own company. I enjoy spending time alone. Unsplash / Marc A. Sporys It doesnt bother me. It doesnt make me feel lonely. I enjoy the quiet. I welcome the silence. I like having the bed all to myself and dont feel weird only cooking for one. I enjoy lazy days. Unsplash / Marc A. Sporys I enjoy my own company. I enjoy spending time alone....
I hope you know that seeing you happy made me want to be happy without you. It made me realize that my pain makes you happy. My misery brings you joy. God & Man My heartbreak brings you power. By Updated 7 years ago,November 8, 2017 Do you remember the last conversation we had? You said youd like to see me one more time. You said youd like to talk to me again because you missed me....
Waiting for you to invite me over. Waiting for you to make a commitment. Waiting for you to show you cared. Unsplash / Benjaminrobyn Jespersen When I told myself that you were a good guy, that there was no one better than you. When I forced myself to believe your excuses, even though anyone could see that they were total bullshit. When I convinced myself that you were in the right and I was wrong....
Loneliness is an opportunity to look inside and ask ourselves what we need. No longer anesthetized by five different kinds of hard-bar, the familiar hollowness quietly expanded in my chest. As Rumi says, The cure for the pain is in the pain. Toa Heftiba (I think cure is ambitious). Loneliness is a pervasive theme with my clients. Whether theyre presenting with an eating disorder or depression, loneliness lurks beneath the surface....
When the people around you dont understand you anymore,be alone. Listen to your own voice away from their noise. Remember who you were before they imposed their lifestyles, opinions, and thoughts on you. Jeff Isy Remember who you were before you met them or integrated yourself with them. Recharge your mind and your heart away from their energies. This is the time to be selfish. This is the time to ask for space....
Long-term relationships take a lot of forgiving if you want them to work. That sounded pretty shitty to me. Underneath the surface, I was yearning to know what you needed to do for a relationship to last. Alex Holyoake Id ask anyone I met who had been married over 20 years what their secret was. And now, being married myself, I realize that yes, it does take work. But not the kind of work I thought....
In 2018 youll learn to take one step at a time. You cant do everything all at once. Taurus Youll get your shit together by finally accepting some things are just out of your control. God & Man Youll make mistakes and thats okay, but you cant spend your life in the in-between. If you mess up, youll learn. Have a little faith in someone other than yourself, and youll be pleasantly surprised....
Taurus For 2018, your strong need for independence and space will grow even stronger. You are stubborn in your old ways, but ultimately will need to let people into your life somehow. 2018 will be the year you slowly let your guard downs. Christopher Sardegna Gemini You hate being alone, because it makes you feel vulnerable, and depressed. However, 2018 is where you discover your new found freedom. Cancer Congratulations Cancer!...
Sometimes people cling to unhealthy relationships not because they lack confidence or have bad taste. When you meet the right person suddenly you have something to lose. You begin with anticipating the worst. Yoann Boyer You expect this person to turn out to be just like your exes. You expect this act in the beginning to end. You expect there suddenly to be a shift. Yoann Boyer What throws you off is this person continually shows you the best....
