You don’t have to force anything at all.
What’s meant for you will come find you.
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Updated 6 years ago,April 2, 2019
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God & Man
People are not supposed to do the healing for you.
But you are supposed to do the healing on your own.
People are not meant to heal you.
Dont go looking for someone to understand and see through you.
Show up for yourself first and foremost.
Sometimes securing a relationship comes easy when you know how to enjoy your own company.
Because if you dont, who else will?
Sometimes we deny ourselves the truth because we cant handle the authenticity and the rawness of it.
But would we rather hear the truth from someone else?
Face it now so you wont have to face it later.
In short, we havent healed that part of ourselves yet.
Start with a clean slate.
But also dont let anyone rush you.There is absolutely nothing wrong with taking your time.
If you meet someone amazing and you found out that youre not yet ready, its okay.
If they cant, focus on yourself until the right one comes along.
You dont have to force anything at all.Whats meant for you will come find you.
Just like all things, each has its own frequency and vibe.
Relationships are the very least thing that need to be forced or that need forcing.
Although they usually come with struggles and hardships, they should also come easy and light.
With the right person, nothing will feel like a chore nor a responsibility.
If something still bothers and triggers you, you should probably heal it.It doesnt involve anyone else but you.
Do the internal work.
Do it even if it means taking time away and off of everyone for a while.
Its a necessity if you are determined to consciously march on with your life.
Trust is a luxury.Relationships cannot breathe without trust.
You know what you could bring to the table.
They have their own path to figure out.
The right people for you will always gravitate their way towards you.
The people who dont resonate have to go.
Dont let old memories keep you from making new ones.
Its all about appreciating another without feeling the need to change them in any way in the present.
Love them for who they are right now, not for their potential.
Love without feeling attached.
Love for the sake of loving, not for the sake of getting into a relationship.
Pour yourself some unconditional and legitimate love.
The love you have for yourself will determine all the other relationships you will have.
Fill yourself with self-love even if that means owning up to your mistakes, and your own shit.
Heal yourself as many times as you’re gonna wanna.
And then find that someone who will complement, not complete, the love youve already established within.
Loving thyself is more than just buying yourself presents and giving yourself rewards and acknowledging your own achievements.
Sometimes its taking a moment to pause and recognizing that youre being absurd and it has to change.
Establish healthy boundaries.Dont take anyone for granted.
Cherish whats in front of you right now.
Everything is impermanent and we are not going to be here forever.
Yes, you deserve the best and you deserve to be happy.
I believe that in this lifetime, we attract what we are, not what we look for.
it’s crucial that you feel complete and whole by yourself.
I hope you find and feel wholeness and home within yourself.
So when its about time to share your love with another, you will never run out.
Because you, yourself are love.
