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Updated 4 years ago,June 28, 2021
Put more effort into your relationship.
Do not let your person tumble down your priority list after spending a few years or even months together.
Its easy to take the right person for granted.
Nathan Dumlao
Its easy to become overly comfortable.
Its easy to forget how lucky you are.
When you chase after the wrong person, you are forced to do the work.
You are forced to send the first text.
You are forced to plan dates.
You are forced to make an effort.
Otherwise, they would walk away without a second thought.
Otherwise, you would lose them.
Put more effort into your forever person.
Do not let yourself slip.
Do not become a different person than the one they fell for in the first place.
The flirting should not end when you get into an official relationship.
The playful banter and kisses on the forehead should be ongoing.
Turning someone into your boyfriend/girlfriend does not mean the hard work is over.
It is only beginning.
You cannot stop trying when you land snagged someone.
Just because they are yours today does not mean they will be yours tomorrow.
If you stop treating them as a priority, they might gather their belongings and leave.
You should be aware of your own actions.
You should step back and ask yourself whether you have been doing your best as a partner.
Just because they are letting you get away with something does not mean youshouldbe getting away with something.
It does not mean you should continue to slack.
You put in the effort to chase this person.
You should be willing to put in the effort to keep this person.
You should not take your person for granted.
You should not forget how much they do for you on a daily basis.
You should not underplay how happy they make you.
Put more effort into your forever person.
They are the love of your life.
They deserve to see the best sides of you.
The deserve to be spoiled with affection.
They deserve to look at you and know your feelings havent changed at all.
If anything, they have only grown deeper.
