Putting effort into the relationship means you’re present during the hours when you’re with your person.
It doesnt mean youre joined at the hip twenty-four seven.
Putting effort into the relationship means that yourepresentduring the hours when youarewith your person.
Alex Blăjan
It means youre engaged with what theyre saying and giving your own, well-thought-out responses.
It means youre thoroughly enjoying their company instead of taking them for granted and pushing them to the background.
Putting effort into the relationship doesnt mean your entire world revolves around your relationship.
It doesnt mean you stop acting as an independent soul with their own thoughts and opinions and desires.
It means you arent flirting with anyone else who tries to win you over.
Putting effort into the relationship doesnt mean you should burn yourself out so that like them.
Putting effort into the relationship means you make compromises with them when you come to a crossroads.
It means you talk through your issues in a mature manner instead of running away.
It means you should treat their heart as tenderly as your own heart.
It means you should give them as much respect as you expect them to give you.
