Before you text him back, decide whether you really want to reopen old wounds.
Decide whether you really want to risk getting your heart broken by him again.
Ask yourself whether youre going to regret admitting you miss him in the morning.
Sophia Sinclair
Before you text him back, remind yourself relationships arent everything and healing takes time.
Just because youre feeling lonely right now, it doesnt mean you should run back into his arms.
Before you text him back, remember youre meant to keep your standards high.
Remember you deserve better than what he put you through in the past.
Before you text him back, ask yourself why you think hes reaching out to you.
Is it because hes drunk?
Is it because hes trying to hook up with you?
Is it because hes coming to the realization no other girl is going to put up with his bullshit?
He already screwed up.
He already chased you away.
Remember all of the lies hes told.
Remember all of the promises hes broken.
Remember all of the times he disappointed you and made you cry.
Remember why you two separated in the first place.
Dont trick yourself into believing he was perfect for you when you know that isnt the case.
Stop thinking so highly of him.
Remember all of the reasons why you should begladyoure apart from him.
Before you text him back, think about how hard it was to get over him the first time.
Its okay to delete his message and go about your day without him.
You dont owe him an answer.
You dont owe him your time.
You dont owe him any attention.
Youre through with him now, which means you should be putting yourself first for a change.
Before you text him back, decide whether youreallywant to reopen old wounds.
Decide whether youreallywant to risk getting your heart broken by him again.
