Youre allowed to make mistakes in love.
Youre allowed to screw up from time to time.
No one is perfect and feelings are complicated.
Annie Spratt
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Updated 6 years ago,September 24, 2019
Dont feel guilty about texting your toxic ex.
Its normal to have regrets over your old loves.
Its normal to give into the temptation to get back together again or at least talk again.
Texting your ex doesnt make you weak.
It doesnt make you stupid.
He probably didnt learn anything new.
It can take a long time.
Youre bound to have setbacks along the way.
Dont feel guilty about texting your toxic ex because missing him isnt something to be ashamed of.
Even though he put you through hell, there were good times too.
You have a lot of history.
You have a lot of memories.
It doesnt matter that youre better off without him because sometimes your heart is going to overpower your head.
Sometimes you arent going to be able to stop yourself from missing him.
Dont feel guilty about texting him because theres nothing you could do about it now.
You cannot change the past.
You cannot take away the messages you sent.
But youcanstop yourself from sending more messages in the future.
Youcancontrol the temptation to reach out to him again moving forward.
you’re able to fix your mistake right now.
you could delete him from your phone.
you could mute him on social media.
you could push him out of your world again if you think thats what would be best for you.
You know he didnt deserve to hear from you.
Texting him might have helped put things back into perspective.
It helped remind you how dangerous it is to keep him in your world.
you’re free to learn how to live without him.
