Finding a boyfriend to kiss and hold shouldnt be your top priority.
If it is, then you just might drive yourself crazy.
Thats why you should read this if you wish you cared less about finding love.
Maksim Goncharenok
Theres nothing wrong with wanting love.
First of all, you shouldnt apologize for wanting to be loved.
Everyone wants to be loved, even if they dont admit it.
So never feel ashamed of wanting someone to hold.
What you really want might not involve love at all.
Think about what youve been craving.
If it is, you’re free to get that by adopting a puppy.
Is it the sex?
you’ve got the option to get that by buying a stronger vibrator.
Love isnt the only way for you to get the key in of affection you need.
Love (from others) isnt the answer.
A boy isnt magically going to make you change the way you see yourself.
Youll still have the same insecurities that youve always had.
Relationships can be messier than single life is.
As much as it sucks to eat alone and masturbate, falling in love can be even worse.
After all, there are women out there in relationships who are crying themselves to sleep every night.
Theyve fallen in love, but theyre no better off than you are.
Dont believe the hype about relationships.
Movies are always going to paint a pretty picture of love.
So is the music you hear on the radio.
But for every sappy song, theres a song about heartbreak.
People complain about love just as often as they brag about it.
Youve just been focusing on the good stuff, because you want what you dont have.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself.
Dont bask in your own misery.
You arent living some horrible life, just because you arent in love.
Your life isnt as bad as youre making it out to be.
Youll eventually find what youre looking for.
Dont beat yourself up if you cant stop yourself from caring about love.
Looking for a serious relationship hasnt been a waste of your time.
You might not have found what you want yet, but one day you will.
